What you can say to a survivor

Remember: The man who batters is the problem. It is not her responsibility to stop the violence.

You can say:
• I am very sorry that this is happening to you
• I believe you
• No one deserves to be abused
• It is not your fault!
• I am concerned about your safety.

You can:
• Give her information about services such as Women Helping Battered Women.
• Listen to her, emphasize her strengths as a survivor.
• Call WHBW's hotline in order to get support and information for yourself as a friend.
• Do not expect a quick and easy remedy. Domestic violence is a complex issue.

Remember to respect her decisions. She is the expert on her situation!