Are you in an abusive relationship?

If you answer YES to any of these questions, visit for assistance.

Does your Partner:

  • Stop you from talking to or seeing family or friends?
  • Embarrass you with bad names and put-downs?
  • Look at you or act in ways that scare you?
  • Treat you roughly, grab you, shove you, push you?
  • Control what you do, who you see or talk to, or where you go?
  • Stop you from seeing or talking to friends and family?
  • Prevent you from getting or keeping a job?
  • Take your money, make you ask for money or refuse to give you money?
  • Make all the decisions?
  • Prevent you from leaving after a fight?
  • Tell you that you are a bad parent or threaten to take away your children?
  • Act like abuse is no big deal, it is your fault, or even deny it?
  • Destroy your property?
  • Intimidate you with guns, knives or other weapons?
  • Force you into sexual acts that you do not permit or enjoy?
  • Threaten you with words or weapons?
  • Shove you, slap you or hit you?
  • Use violence against or threaten to hurt pets or things you care about?
  • Threaten to kill them self?
  • Threaten to kill you?